Frequently Asked Questions

Q.  Where can we have our wedding? 

A.  Outdoors, in a church, a hall, a restaurant, a private home, a park, beside the lake, elope in my living room ... in other words, the place you hold your wedding is entirely up to you, the couple being married. 

Q.  Can we write our own vows?

A.  Certainly, if you wish to do so.  Feel free to use any of the ceremonies on my website as a guide.  However, most couples choose to use one of the standard traditional ceremonies.  Again, the choice is yours.

Q.  Is pre-marrital counseling required?

A.  In a word, no, but it is available.  I feel that some ministers who require pre-marital counseling do so for the purpose of indoctrinating the couple in the theology of their church.  As an inter-denominational minister, I will marry couples of any faith, or no faith at all. 

Q.  Do you marry those who have been divorced?

A.  Yes, I am happy to perform the ceremony of anyone who has a marriage license.  My job is to serve you, not to be your judge. During the years I was a pastor I often had other pastors, from Catholic priests to conservative fundamentalists refer their couples to me when their own church did not allow them to perform the ceremony.

Q.  Do you officiate at non-religious ceremonies?

A.  Yes, of course.  Although I am an ordained minister, I  respect the wishes of couples who desire a non-religious ceremony, and am honored to serve them. 

Other Questions?  Send them to me at jstephenconn@yahoo.com or give me a call:  (513) 722-1109